<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0" xmlns:itunes="http://www.itunes.com/dtds/podcast-1.0.dtd" xmlns:googleplay="http://www.google.com/schemas/play-podcasts/1.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[The 4-Life Method: Podcast]]></title><description><![CDATA[You are not running a career with a life attached. You are running four lives at once. Work. Personal. Father. Marital.
If your work is intense, your children are young, your marriage runs on the leftovers of your energy, and your body no longer forgives what it forgave at twenty-five, this show is for you.
The premise: four lives, one system. Architect them together, or the whole thing collapses.
I am Philippe Turrian. Senior executive at a private bank in Geneva. Husband, father of two. Still in the role, twelve-hour days, under the same pressure you are. This is the system I built to keep all four standing. Not because I have figured it out perfectly. Because I needed one and one did not exist in the form I needed.
One episode every Thursday. No motivational platitudes. No work-life balance advice.
Start with the Manifesto. Then the four Foundations, one per life.]]></description><link>https://posts.the4lifemethod.com/s/the-4-life-method-podcast</link><image><url>https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!zLpO!,w_256,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fe6f72b42-105a-4ab5-908a-216aad54d86a_1080x1080.png</url><title>The 4-Life Method: Podcast</title><link>https://posts.the4lifemethod.com/s/the-4-life-method-podcast</link></image><generator>Substack</generator><lastBuildDate>Thu, 15 Oct 2026 00:32:13 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://posts.the4lifemethod.com/feed" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><copyright><![CDATA[Philippe Turrian]]></copyright><language><![CDATA[en-gb]]></language><webMaster><![CDATA[philippe@the4lifemethod.com]]></webMaster><itunes:owner><itunes:email><![CDATA[philippe@the4lifemethod.com]]></itunes:email><itunes:name><![CDATA[Philippe Turrian]]></itunes:name></itunes:owner><itunes:author><![CDATA[Philippe Turrian]]></itunes:author><googleplay:owner><![CDATA[philippe@the4lifemethod.com]]></googleplay:owner><googleplay:email><![CDATA[philippe@the4lifemethod.com]]></googleplay:email><googleplay:author><![CDATA[Philippe Turrian]]></googleplay:author><itunes:block><![CDATA[Yes]]></itunes:block><item><title><![CDATA[The Supplement Stack: The Few Things That Actually Earn Their Place]]></title><description><![CDATA[The two-layer supplement approach: a convenient base, the few targeted doses that earn their place, and everything I stopped buying.]]></description><link>https://posts.the4lifemethod.com/p/the-supplement-stack-what-i-actually</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://posts.the4lifemethod.com/p/the-supplement-stack-what-i-actually</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Philippe Turrian]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 08 Oct 2026 05:00:13 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/215023134/873f014074e5e6e933f695427120c395.mp3" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>More ingredients on the label does not mean more health in the bottle. This episode covers the honest two-layer stack I use, and the wasted money I stopped spending.</p><p>The <a href="https://posts.the4lifemethod.com/p/supplement-stack-what-i-actually-take">full written essay</a>, with sources.</p><p>The <a href="https://youtu.be/T35pVmZ8OaI">film version</a>.</p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Why Your Marriage Needs to Be Treated as an Entity, Not a Co-Parenting Contract]]></title><description><![CDATA[The quiet slide from lovers to logistics managers, and the system that reverses it: rituals, protected time, and the couple treated as an entity.]]></description><link>https://posts.the4lifemethod.com/p/why-your-marriage-needs-to-be-treated</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://posts.the4lifemethod.com/p/why-your-marriage-needs-to-be-treated</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Philippe Turrian]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 01 Oct 2026 04:58:38 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/215022633/ae03da2a7e918c2241f097a1264aea25.mp3" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Nothing dramatic happens. You just look up one day and realize you have become excellent partners in administration. This episode is about the system that keeps the couple alive.</p><p>The <a href="https://posts.the4lifemethod.com/p/marriage-not-a-coparenting-contract">full written essay</a>, with sources.</p><p>The <a href="https://youtu.be/VfUcNDKniEA">film version</a>.</p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Unconditional Love, Non-Negotiable Structure, and Why Your Kids Need Both]]></title><description><![CDATA[Warm and firm at the same time: what fifty years of parenting research actually says about discipline, and the system we use at home.]]></description><link>https://posts.the4lifemethod.com/p/unconditional-love-non-negotiable</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://posts.the4lifemethod.com/p/unconditional-love-non-negotiable</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Philippe Turrian]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 24 Sep 2026 04:59:39 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/215021868/9dd922a75e680893efc4f9ce3149fb8f.mp3" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The culture says firm limits damage kids. Fifty years of research says warmth and structure together build the most secure children, and this episode covers how we do both at full strength.</p><p>The <a href="https://posts.the4lifemethod.com/p/unconditional-love-and-structure">full written essay</a>, with sources.</p><p>The <a href="https://youtu.be/dgtdyu2QiiE">film version</a>.</p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[How I Rebuilt My Sleep When I Had No Time to Sleep More]]></title><description><![CDATA[Rebuilding deep sleep on a schedule you cannot change: the three moves that raise recovery without adding a single hour in bed.]]></description><link>https://posts.the4lifemethod.com/p/how-i-rebuilt-my-sleep-when-i-had</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://posts.the4lifemethod.com/p/how-i-rebuilt-my-sleep-when-i-had</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Philippe Turrian]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 17 Sep 2026 04:58:38 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/213263610/37d39ea7522c8dff30eb4802b30e2c78.mp3" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You are not short on time, you are short on recovery, and they are different problems. This episode covers the three moves that rebuilt my sleep without one extra hour in bed.</p><p>The <a href="https://posts.the4lifemethod.com/p/rebuilt-sleep-no-time-to-sleep-more">full written essay</a>, with sources.</p><p>The <a href="https://youtu.be/Bg-T5IRm2NI">film version</a>.</p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[The 360 Review That Changed How I Lead, and How Much Energy I Had Left]]></title><description><![CDATA[Performing perfection exhausts you and caps your team. What the hardest 360 review of my career taught me about leading without the mask.]]></description><link>https://posts.the4lifemethod.com/p/the-360-review-that-changed-how-i</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://posts.the4lifemethod.com/p/the-360-review-that-changed-how-i</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Philippe Turrian]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 10 Sep 2026 04:58:28 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/213263286/1b723e8c5919d6db6e43b23c492e445d.mp3" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My team called me Mr. Perfect, and it was not a compliment. This episode is about the 360 review that made me drop the mask, and why doing so left me a better leader with more energy at the door.</p><p>The <a href="https://posts.the4lifemethod.com/p/360-review-mr-perfect-leadership">full written essay</a>, with sources. </p><p>The <a href="https://youtu.be/X_zOdZ8msdQ">film version</a>.</p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[I Tracked My Sleep, Stress and Recovery for 6 Months. Here Is What Actually Mattered]]></title><description><![CDATA[The numbers that actually mattered after six months of tracking sleep, stress and recovery, and the simple routine that turns them into usable energy.]]></description><link>https://posts.the4lifemethod.com/p/i-tracked-my-sleep-stress-and-recovery</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://posts.the4lifemethod.com/p/i-tracked-my-sleep-stress-and-recovery</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Philippe Turrian]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 03 Sep 2026 04:59:31 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/213262929/6d324e9084ea121f8ee3ff0f478fe812.mp3" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You would never run your business on a hunch, yet you run your body on how you think you feel. This episode covers the simple data routine that changed how I steer my energy.</p><p>The <a href="https://posts.the4lifemethod.com/p/tracked-sleep-stress-recovery-six-months">full written essay</a>, with sources.</p><p>The <a href="https://youtu.be/5Vs_-UdtxwI">film version</a>.</p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[When Your Marriage Becomes a Logistics Meeting (And How to Stop It)]]></title><description><![CDATA[Partners drift into co-parents without ever deciding to. On treating your couple as an entity in its own right, and what feeding it actually takes.]]></description><link>https://posts.the4lifemethod.com/p/when-your-marriage-becomes-a-logistics</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://posts.the4lifemethod.com/p/when-your-marriage-becomes-a-logistics</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Philippe Turrian]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 01 Sep 2026 04:59:36 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/213262512/481fb4fd715c784c988eebe579767117.mp3" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You married a partner, and somewhere along the way you both became co-parents. This episode is about keeping the person you chose: the couple as an entity, fed like one.</p><p>The <a href="https://posts.the4lifemethod.com/p/marriage-logistics-meeting">full written essay</a>, with sources.</p><p>The <a href="https://youtu.be/v9L_v5VRsmg">film version</a>.</p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Why Being a Present Parent Is a Function of Energy, Not Love]]></title><description><![CDATA[The version of you your kids will describe at thirty is being written right now. How to protect the energy that makes you present, one evening at a time.]]></description><link>https://posts.the4lifemethod.com/p/why-being-a-present-parent-is-a-function</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://posts.the4lifemethod.com/p/why-being-a-present-parent-is-a-function</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Philippe Turrian]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 01 Sep 2026 04:58:31 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/213262133/7629c5c60f87dfcf0c7c2992d8c4af7c.mp3" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Your kids are writing the story they will tell about you at thirty, one evening at a time. This episode is about writing the first story on purpose: presence as a function of energy, not love.</p><p>The <a href="https://posts.the4lifemethod.com/p/present-parent-energy-not-love">full written essay</a>, with sources.</p><p>The <a href="https://youtu.be/oyW27NoxTSU">film version</a>.</p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Why Sacrificing Yourself for Your Family Is Slowly Destroying It]]></title><description><![CDATA[Giving up sleep, training and recovery for your family feels like love. It slowly weakens everything that depends on you. The maintenance system, episode by episode.]]></description><link>https://posts.the4lifemethod.com/p/why-sacrificing-yourself-for-your</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://posts.the4lifemethod.com/p/why-sacrificing-yourself-for-your</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Philippe Turrian]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 01 Sep 2026 04:57:32 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/213261648/f34371be204a8d124cc256536443f3eb.mp3" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sacrificing yourself for your family feels noble. It quietly degrades the platform every other life stands on, and this episode covers the structural maintenance that rebuilds it.</p><p>The <a href="https://posts.the4lifemethod.com/p/sacrificing-yourself-slowly-destroying-it">full written essay</a>, with sources.</p><p>The <a href="https://youtu.be/8CgnyMGbRbs">film version</a>.</p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Why Your Career Will Eat the Other Three Lives (And What to Do About It)]]></title><description><![CDATA[Why the career pillar quietly devours the other three lives, and the two dimensions to architect so it funds the life it was meant to serve.]]></description><link>https://posts.the4lifemethod.com/p/why-your-career-will-eat-the-other</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://posts.the4lifemethod.com/p/why-your-career-will-eat-the-other</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Philippe Turrian]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 01 Sep 2026 04:56:33 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/213244986/e4779aede8919d025dd7b9248f3d305e.mp3" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The pillar that was supposed to fund their life is the first one to eat the other three. This episode covers the two dimensions to architect so your career serves the life it was meant to fund.</p><p>The <a href="https://posts.the4lifemethod.com/p/career-will-eat-the-other-three-lives">full written essay</a>, with sources</p><p>The <a href="https://youtu.be/nCB9i5Mu5NU">film version</a></p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[You're Not Failing. You're Living Four Lives at Once]]></title><description><![CDATA[The hardest stretch of adult life: a demanding career, young children, a marriage under pressure, and a body that no longer forgives. Nobody taught you how to hold all four lives. So I built the method.]]></description><link>https://posts.the4lifemethod.com/p/youre-not-failing-youre-living-four</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://posts.the4lifemethod.com/p/youre-not-failing-youre-living-four</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Philippe Turrian]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 23 Aug 2026 08:34:40 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/212380385/b9bdea5d46d5a333339e48e657e1aeff.mp3" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is the Manifesto: why you are not failing, and why the four lives you are running need to be architected together.</p><p>The <a href="https://posts.the4lifemethod.com/p/youre-not-failing-four-lives-at-once">full written essay</a>, with sources.</p><p>The <a href="https://youtu.be/nzFzkWDs39E">film version</a>.</p>]]></content:encoded></item></channel></rss>